Importance of communication

Justification of communication,
How importance of communication will be..
By communication, we learn of understanding and building relationship,

good communication brings.. good impacts..
Well understanding and with good relationship..
But good communication cant be created by single individuals.. but together..
One person efforts will never be enough..
Different people with different communication method..
The time to communicate is not importance as the degree of understanding the needs is more importance.

Sometimes.. we try to communicate more and hope the understanding will grow.. but things will never be that well. as more communication bring more different perceptions and different opinion.. which causes more troubles.

Less communication.. doesn't mean to be bad.. as sometimes.. we can get to understand ppl well. although we communicate less.. less communication may also bring less troubles.. and less worries..

Valuation of communication..
Depending on peoples u dealing with..
some.. u need to communicate more.. but some.. they will jus understand by heart...
Whether communication can be a tool or a disaster..
Depends on the way we applying it on our daily life..
Balancing it and make a good part of it..
Will benefit and do more goods than harms...

Changes...

People change as time goes by..
But whether the change is good or bad..
it hardly judge by u or me or anyone..
As decision need to be made for changes..
And each individuals have their own rights to choose their path..
A path and direction that they dream of but not supportive..
or a future that everyone hope for and want to be..
Everyone want to change for better.. but
Will the changes always be a better one for urself or up to others expectation..
U may think u change for good but others may think it is not enough good..
So which is the most important criteria..
Urself or others..
Ourselves.. but ppl may think we are selfish..
OThers.. but the life is yours and u think so much about others.. will it be a stupid fool
Expectation and more expectation.. whose expectation you can manage to fulfill...
Tolerating.. we tolerate for each other changes.. but how much and how long this toleration can be continue..
Will the toleration given taken granted by others..
When this is happening.. will the toleration given still worthwhile to be given sincerely..
Or it is the time to put a stop.. and the end of the patient for the toleration..
As time goes by.. we never know which is true, which is correct and which is the best..
WE jus learn to grow, learn to manage...
And making life happier from one day to another...
Life brings thinking.. but thinking might not bring happiness..
So.. why make life difficult by thinking so much..
Lift it up.. and Jus trying to make a simple life by...
Live for life of happpiness!

Graduation by Vitamin C

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of that night in June
I didn't know much of love
But it came too soon
And there was me and you
And then we got real cool
Stay at home talking on the telephone with me
We'd get so excited, we'd get so scared
Laughing at our selves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels

As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
Come whatever
We will still be
Friends forever

So if we get the big jobs
And we make the big money
When we look back now
Will our jokes still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels

As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
Come whatever
We will still be
Friends forever

Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there?
Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us 'round?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly

As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
Come whatever
We will still be
Friends forever

The first time i listen to this song was in my secondary year.. when i need to leave my friends and my school during form five. Next, it was during my form six years in SAB ended. ALthough that time it is not the real graduation.. but this song jus sound good as it really meaningful and didnt sound that sad as the auld lang syne.. where is time to bid farewell to people around you. And this song.. i listen to it again... this year.. as it is the real graduation.. Few weeks before the real day, a fren share this song with me with her mp3. She told me this song suit me as graduation will be coming soon.. and at that moment, i jus listen to the song tentatively as i really like this song very much. And when i reach home, i jus go look for the vitamin C single album on graduation. I played the song again and again.. listen to it many times... before,during and after the convocation... And finally the officially graduation day is over and this time is also the time that i got the most feeling on this song.. Therefore, i would like to dedicate this song to all my frens who had graduated recently or to those who will be graduating soon... Enjoy the song and the lyrics.....All the best in the future and do keep in touch..... Missing all of u...........

Dunno what to do...

Considerations for others..
Things get complicated..
Very headache..
dunno what to do..
dunno how to decide..
Why so difficult to make a decision?
a decision that everyone would be happy for it..
a decision that i will not feel bad with..
Hai... why things that is so simple yet can be so complicated...
really no ideas....

Life

For the longest time, it seemed that life was about to start. Real life. But there was always some obstacle along the way, an ordeal to get through, some work to be finished, some time to be given, a bill to be paid. Then life would start.