Care,
We might always stand a chance to be the one who care for others and as well as being the one to be care of.. jus depend on situation and what role we are playing on. But which way we play the role most.. or which is the better role.. or izzit a better role there...
Being the one who care for others.. the care we give is hopefully appreciated or welcome by others.. and not a burden to others.. the care and the help we trying to give is hopefully benefit the other and the one we care for.. But we may not underestimate that it might not always turn the positive way.. it might be a burden, a frustration or worsen the situation.. Thus, in this situation.. how much a care should go into? or it might be the time should really think of whether the person to be care wanted someone care or not? Sometimes, never hesitate that people may not want care but need silent..
BEing the one to be care of.. appreciating...happy,feel thankful.. or the negative site.... of frustration!!! Sometimes, people hope to be care of.. but turn up no one care for them.. and it is so depressed for them for not having someone to care for them.. not even familes that they hav to care for them.. orphanage.. they need parents care but they dun have it...but when there are people to care for them.. they may complain they care too much... PEople with families.. may complain families care too much...People feel frustrated to explain and inform too much...When look back.. it jus seem as those who have someone who care for them are not feeling grateful and appreciating.. Not only in family, it occurs anywhere to anyone of the communities.. among friends, among couples, among married couple, among neighbours, among relatives, among people to people relationships
Positive of care.. people learnt to appreciate and be glad and never take things for granted.. while the negative side.. care created jealousy and expectation.. Jealousy occur when people who care didnt manage their care well for everyone..While expectation happen to people who should be care of or people who care for others..
In a positive way of living.. How likely we are to manage care.. How we manage our care for people and how to manage people care on us.. to avoid any of the negatives outcomes... A simple care might bring a smile, while care can be so simple yet so complicated..
Take time thinking about the one you care and the one who care for u.. Do we really manage the care we gave well....or do we care enough for the one who really need our care? and do we really appreciating and no complain about the one who cares so much for us...
2 comments:
we are living in the heaven,we think positively ; we are living in the hell, we think negatively.we got the choice of living in the heaven or in the hell,or maybe in between? as for me,sometimes i'm in heaven,but sometimes i'm in hell..we are just human being,i just can do my best to reach the heaven..reach the balance atleast?but on the other hand,if i reli in the hell,and i hurt u,pls forgive me,i need more time to find the best position to better off both of us.
dun know wat i'm talking? kaka..dun know how much we have to care,and dun know how much we have to expect?but i believe we will know automatically how much we have to care or to be care in the right time to the right person.pening ler?kaka..
hmm.. this time ur comment seem abstracting.. but dun worry.. still can get what it means..
HEaven and hell.. dunno which position i am.. sometimes at the positive, sometimes at the negative. But when it is negative, then really need to calm down think properly and move back the thinking to the positive direction. everything have the pros and cons.. so as positive and negative.. WE need a balance and thats also the things that really hard to be done... but everyone will jus keep on trying to achieve.. never try never know!
Do think its complicated and cant make any judgement to know how much to care for and to be care of. Like u say automatically we will know by the time and the right person.. Jus rely on the understanding we hav in relationships.
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