Sumtime.. Parents jus dun understand what their children want.. Parents may jus look on the side that they think is important without concerning the children need and wants.. But of all it depending o what kind of parents we have.. sum parents they will try to talk to children and und.. but sum they jus didnt talk much to their children and jus think the way they think should be the way thier children think!
Sumtime is the results that parents will care of.. whetehr it beneficial or not.. but parents neever think or even wan to know about the process and the progress that their children go through all the way to achieve the result. no matter the result is good or not. Is that really does matter??? Isn't it the process of goiing through and how the child go through and enjoy the process is much more important that jus the results.. i really dun und.. Jus feel taht the process of we going through is much more important than the results.. althought the result is not good but the children enjoy the time going through.. so isn't it worth more than anything..
I jus cant agree with parents that never even want to care or understand their child process of going through anything in their life but jus the results.. a simple example is jus .. parents usually look for the results of their children.. but they never consider about the process their children going thru all the while in their studies process.. What if a child din score good results but enjoy the studies time.. learn and play around. And i gues this child will be more success as this child will have a more social development and may be more easy goin, and sociable.. that a child who always keep on books. without going socializing.. The child may be good and inteligent. but when this child come to the working society or community.. this child might not be a success or happy person!
Maybe today parents.. din realize of this importance.. or maybe they do know but never want to change or even care about.. i dunno.. but this is how i feel that today parents need to change their style of educating and supporting their children.. or else it may jus ended up the children refuse to talk much to the parents.. as the parents seem to be not understanding their child.. Dunno whetehr wat i think of today is rite or not.. but this is how i feel.....
Sumtime is the results that parents will care of.. whetehr it beneficial or not.. but parents neever think or even wan to know about the process and the progress that their children go through all the way to achieve the result. no matter the result is good or not. Is that really does matter??? Isn't it the process of goiing through and how the child go through and enjoy the process is much more important that jus the results.. i really dun und.. Jus feel taht the process of we going through is much more important than the results.. althought the result is not good but the children enjoy the time going through.. so isn't it worth more than anything..
I jus cant agree with parents that never even want to care or understand their child process of going through anything in their life but jus the results.. a simple example is jus .. parents usually look for the results of their children.. but they never consider about the process their children going thru all the while in their studies process.. What if a child din score good results but enjoy the studies time.. learn and play around. And i gues this child will be more success as this child will have a more social development and may be more easy goin, and sociable.. that a child who always keep on books. without going socializing.. The child may be good and inteligent. but when this child come to the working society or community.. this child might not be a success or happy person!
Maybe today parents.. din realize of this importance.. or maybe they do know but never want to change or even care about.. i dunno.. but this is how i feel that today parents need to change their style of educating and supporting their children.. or else it may jus ended up the children refuse to talk much to the parents.. as the parents seem to be not understanding their child.. Dunno whetehr wat i think of today is rite or not.. but this is how i feel.....
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